Bonin Ida
 2 June 1909 - 24 February 2008
 Rest in Verrès (Italia)



   
A great gift was given to Ida: to live long and thus be able to enjoy the company of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. The almost century of her life has allowed her to see those great scientific, technological and customs upheavals that Ida sometimes examined perplexed and disconsolate at the thought of how "times changed".

Yet she, at the end of the distant "20", residing in the village of Challant-Saint-Victor, had given her small contribution to change: falling in love and marrying that "stranger", a certain Guido Giovannini, from Florence, who he was in the Valley to install the pipes that would later be used for future hydroelectric plants. Yes, the future loomed and advanced ...

Hard times, those of war: fear, hunger, poverty ... Memories that Ida evoked with great sadness and that she soon pushed away in order to replace them with a present full of tranquility and feelings that bound her to her large family, where she for a long time held the role of "censorship" on choices and behaviors, because that strong character that had allowed her to overcome so many adversities, including the painful death of her husband in 1965, continued to characterize her even as the years passed.

The joy of the birth of her first great-grandson Luca, in 1980, had given her a new dimension: she could be a great-grandmother, while when her grandchildren were little she had to sew to be able to get by, she could spoil him and others a little because now he had his pension, she could be more peaceful, because times had changed and for the better, at least for certain things and she always said this; she had not yet got used to the comforts that were now part of everyday life.

Everything has overcome, except the illness of Romano, that son who had always been almost only her, but now she found it hard to understand and recognize. This great pain of her led her to get lost and let go, trying to deny and reject that last change that she just could not overcome.

Memories
Ida as a child with her mother, father and grandmother
Ida as a child with her mother, father and grandmother
Ida with her husband Guido Giovannini
Ida with her husband Guido Giovannini


Ida with her grandchildren in 1979
Ida with her grandchildren in 1979
Ida con il bisnipote Luca nel 1984
Ida con il bisnipote Luca nel 1984
Ida with her great-granddaughter Valentina in 1984
Ida with her great-granddaughter Valentina in 1984
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 Giovannini Romano,

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There are many good memories that I carry inside of my great-grandmother Ida.
I can't help but remember the long games with legos since I was a child, with my grandmother who was my assistant and passed me the bricks to fit together, or the walks by the pool to collect the white pebbles.
I will never forget the taste of the slippery pasta with meat sauce and the steaks with mashed potatoes with a pond of gravy that you cooked for me every Thursday as long as your strength allowed.
The only regret I have is that for only a year and a half you have not been able to meet the great-great-grandchild. Thinking about it now, I would have had the child a little earlier, but certain things are only understood when one becomes a parent.

Luca Giovannini

   

Dear Grandma,
every time I pass in front of your house it always makes me look up to see if you are there in your place, to look out of the window and then say ciao to me. I miss not finding you anymore.
I have wonderful memories of you, the best was the day we played in Shanghai, I had those laughs when you lost a stick in the shirt :)
I'll never forget you grandma.

Simona Giovannini